Jennie L. Elliott
Wife of Dr. Finley Ellingwood and mother of Richard Everett "Cudge" Ellingwood; she organised the church women's association and was its first president. Born at Saratoga Springs, New York, in 1857, she was widowed in 1920 and lived on at the Evanston house, supported by her four sons, until her death there in 1929.
Life
- 1857Born25 Oct 1857, Saratoga Springs, Saratoga County, New York
Her death certificate (informant her son Lloyd). Written by hand in her son's memoir, p. 3, where the day can be read 28 or 25. The Ancestry tree has "about 1858, New York", from the censuses.
- 1880Married Finley Ellingwood1 Sep 1880, Chicago, Illinois
Written by hand in the memoir, p. 3; the Cook County marriage index agrees.
- 1900LivedEvanston Ward 6, Cook County, Illinois
In her husband's household at 2209 Central Street; mother of seven children, six living.
documentedproven - 1910Lived
- 1920LivedEvanston Ward 6, Cook County, Illinois
In her husband's household, with her granddaughter Jennie Harriet Cother.
documentedproven - —Lived
- 1929Died23 Sep 1929, 2209 Central Street, Evanston, Cook County, Illinois
At home, her residence of 37 years, of chronic interstitial nephritis; buried at Graceland [?], Chicago, 26 Sept 1929 (her death certificate).
documentedprovenSources
- Illinois certificate of death, Jennie S. Ellingwood, Evanston, 1929
- FamilySearch record indexes for the families of the Ellingwood wives, as cited on WikiTree
- WikiTree profiles for the Ellingwood line's ancestors (Woodbury, Cheever, Pattullo, Short, Jeffrey, Elliott, Adams, Deyoe, Rice, Warren, Holdershaw)
Family
- Father
- Charles Franklin Elliott
From the Ancestry tree. Her son Elliott Lee carried the surname.
compiledprobable - Mother
- Susan Marriah Adams
Her death certificate gives her mother's maiden name as "Susan Maria [?] Adams", born New York. From the Ancestry tree before that. Susan was born at Saratoga Springs, where the memoir has Jennie born, and died at Evanston in 1926.
Pedigree
Notes
Wife of Dr. Finley Ellingwood. Her middle name is written “Libelia” in the memoir (the reading is not certain); family memory has it as “Sibelia”, and the Ancestry tree, from the records, has her as “Jennie S.” With Finley at Evanston in the 1900 and 1920 censuses (record, record). She organised the church women’s association and was its first president. Widowed in 1920, she lived on at the Evanston house, supported by her four sons under their agreement of 20 June 1923, and later moved to Madison, Wisconsin, near Cudge.
The Cook County marriage index has her as “Sibelia J.” Elliott, marrying Finley on 1 Sep 1880,
and she died at home, 2209 Central Street, Evanston, on 23 Sep 1929; her death certificate
gives her birth as 25 Oct 1857 at Saratoga Springs and her mother as Susan Maria [?] Adams
(record). The certificate makes Evanston her home of 37 years,
so any stay in Madison was not a lasting move. If the first is read right, she was
Sibelia Jane, and “Jennie” came from Jane (research/ellingwood/Ellingwood_Wives_Families.md).
Open questions
- Her middle name: the marriage index’s “Sibelia J.” needs checking against the image.
- Her birth: 25 Oct 1857 at Saratoga Springs by her death certificate, and at Wilton, Saratoga County, on WikiTree; records for her parents (her father’s name is left blank on the certificate).
Cudge's memoir
When she was ill for a spell, Cudge's mother taught him, at twelve or thirteen, to bake the family's weekly batch of eight loaves.
When I was about twelve or thirteen years old, mother was sick for quite a spell, so she taught me how to make bread and supervised the first batch.
p. 6 →She made most of the family's clothes at yearly sewing bees, and she dressed modestly but in excellent taste.
Mother always dressed nicely, very modestly, but in excellent taste. I remember the white lace edging around her neck and the front of her dress and on her cuffs.
p. 7 →She put up with her sons' basketball games in the coal-dusted barn loft and dried their soaked skating clothes on the registers.
Then we would come in the house with everything clothes, hair and skin covered with it. I don't know how mother stood it. What a patient, understanding soul she was!
p. 15 →With money coming in only when patients paid her husband, she kept the grocer's slips on a spindle and settled up with him at the kitchen table.
Mother would stick that up on a spindle in the kitchen and when father finally got some cash from some of his patients, she would call up the grocer and tell him to come up the next evening.
p. 16 →She organized the church women's association and was its first president, and she sputtered whenever her husband was once again given the job of telling a minister to move on.
I can hear my mother yet, and see her eyes snapping when he would come home and tell her that he was elected to that chore. How she would sputter and sputter about somebody else doing it once in a while.
p. 25 →When Cudge came home unannounced from the YMCA in England, his mother and father, alone in the living room, nearly fainted, and there were tears on both sides.
I opened the door, walked in, and they nearly fainted. They had not got my telegram, and they didn't know I was coming home. That was a happy reunion, I tell you! Tears on both sides.
p. C15 →She baked Cudge's favourite cranberry pie and mailed it to him at officers' training camp at Little Rock, where it took two weeks to reach him.
As you know, I have a very strong yen for cranberry pie. Of course, mother was anxious to please me. When I was down at Little Rock, she made me a nice cranberry pie.
p. D5 →When she was well enough to move to Madison, she lived with Jennie Harriet in a second-floor apartment, and Cudge always regretted not finding her one without stairs.
It's always been a source of regret to me that I didnt seem to care enough for her to try to get her an apartment where she didn't have to climb those stairs. She was with us, helped pick the apartment, and she never complained
p. G15 →In an agreement kept at the back of the memoir, signed at Evanston on 20 June 1923, three years after their father's death, her four sons Jim, Wink, Cudge and Gog undertook to share the cost of keeping her, each in proportion to his income, the payments made "in the guise of purchase payments on the home property."
In order to provide an adquate income for Mother we have made the following agreement:- ... That each of us shall pay in monthly amounts his proportionate share of the amount which we estimate is necessary to provide Mother with sufficient funds to fully meet her needs.
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Connections
- In her ancestry
- 7 notable connections →
Every notable ancestor and famous relative that Jennie's own ancestors lead to, with the lines drawn down to her.