Ruth Ethelwyn Short
Born at Woodstock, Ontario, in 1893, the youngest child of John G. Short and Mary Pattullo, she came with her family to Chicago in 1897 and later to Spokane, where she was a stenographer and a Christian Scientist. She met Cudge Ellingwood at a church party in 1918 and married him in 1921. Mother of Richard Everett Ellingwood Jr. and four daughters.
Life
- 1893Born13 Jan 1893, Woodstock, Oxford County, Ontario
Her birth registration, registered 10 Feb 1893 by her father; "Jan 1893" in the 1900 census.
- 1900LivedChicago, Illinois
In her parents' household in Hyde Park, aged 7. The family came to the United States in 1897 (the 1930 census has 1895).
- 1921Lived901 W. 13th Avenue, Spokane, Washington
Her address at her marriage; a stenographer.
- 〃Married Richard Everett Ellingwood26 Jul 1921, 901 W. 13th Avenue, Spokane, Washington
Married before the fireplace at the Shorts' home (the memoir). The certificate gives the bride's address as 901 W. 13th Avenue; the date of the ceremony is left blank on it, and it was filed on 19 Aug 1921.
- 1930LivedMadison, Dane County, Wisconsin
In her husband's household. Attached in the Ancestry tree; not checked here.
documentedprobable - 1974Died13 Feb 1974, Spokane, Washington
The year from her husband's obituary ("after her death in 1974"); the day and place from the Ancestry tree.
Family
- Father
- John Gerald Short
Her birth registration (Woodstock, 1893) names her parents John G. Short, manufacturer, and Mary Pattullo; so does her marriage certificate (Spokane, 1921), and she is in their household in the 1900 census.
documentedprovenSources
- Ontario birth registration, Ruth Ethelwyn Short, Woodstock, 1893
- Washington certificate of marriage, Richard Everett Ellingwood and Ruth Ethelwyn Short, Spokane, 1921
- 1900 United States census, Chicago (Hyde Park Township, ward 34), Cook County, Illinois: John G. Short household
- Reasoning:
research/ellingwood/Short_Pattullo_Comparison.md
- Mother
- Mary Pattullo
"Mary Pattullo" on her birth registration (1893) and her marriage certificate (1921). The memoir fits it: her cousin was Duff Pattullo, premier of British Columbia, and her daughter Mary Jane was named for her two grandmothers.
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Pedigree
Notes
Of Spokane, a stenographer in a real estate office; a Christian Scientist. She met Cudge at a church party while he was stationed at Fort George Wright in 1918, and married him in 1921. She suffered from arthritis in later life; they wintered in Phoenix from 1959.
She was born at Woodstock, Ontario, on 13 January 1893, the youngest of the five children of John G. Short, then a manufacturer, and Mary Pattullo (record). The family moved to Chicago in 1896-97, where the 1900 census finds them in Hyde Park (record), and by 1910 to Spokane. Her brothers and sisters: Jeffrey Robson “Jeff” Short, Cudge’s backer in the soft-water business; Mary Isabella, a piano teacher in Spokane; Jeannie Beatrice “Bea”, a public health nurse, who died in 1969; and Arthur Wendell, who died as a baby.
She signed her name “Ruth Ethelwyn Short” on her marriage certificate in 1921 (record), the spelling of her birth registration.
Open questions
- When the family moved from Chicago to Spokane (her father was at Spokane by November 1910).
Cudge's memoir
Cudge met Ruth, a blond girl from a Christian Science church group, at a party for soldiers from Fort George Wright in 1918; fifty-two years later he broke off dictating the memoir to spend the evening with her.
She's upstairs now watching the TV, and I'm down in my so-called basement office dictating this and it's 8 p.m. and I think I'll go up and spend the rest of the evening with her-fifty-two years later.
p. D3 →On a summer holiday at Twin Lakes, Idaho, in 1920 Cudge fell deeply in love with Ruth and proposed to her in a meadow behind the cabin, and she gladly said yes.
All this time I was finding myself more and more in love with Ruth. What a different kind of relationship it was! How much more real and sure! This time I knew what love was.
p. 84 →Ruth married Cudge before the fireplace of her family's Spokane home on 26 July 1921, coming down the stairs in high spirits and handing wedding cake out of the window to the neighbourhood boys.
Ruth certainly looked beautiful coming down the stairs. She was full of high spirits, with sparkling eyes. ... she cut some cake and handed it to the boys outside and the youngsters were quite impressed.
p. 85 →When a man on a bicycle insulted Ruth near their home outside Madison, she urged Cudge to go after him; he kicked the man while the children screamed in the car, and the couple laughed about it for years.
That was one incident that she and I have laughed about for many years. How she goaded me to prove my manhood and protect my wife, and all I had accomplished was to start the kids yelling.
p. G17 →Cudge admired how Ruth organized their five children and dressed them beautifully on little money, and how she was never late anywhere.
I still look back with amazement at the way Ruth could organize her time and get all those five youngsters ready for whatever event was going on. As far as I know, she was never late anywhere.
p. G22 →In the lean years after the move to Spokane, when the family had almost no money, Ruth never once reproached Cudge for the risk she had feared.
Poor Ruth took the brunt of it at home. ... not once did she get impatient with me and say, "I warned you of this." She fought it out with me all the way.
p. I3 →During the Second World War Ruth worked in the ground observer corps office in Spokane, plotting aircraft reports three hours a day, three days a week, on top of the housework and five children.
Soon after we were in the war, Mother decided she had to do something for war activity. She signed up for the ground observer corps
p. I16 →Ruth loved animals, children and babies, as Cudge's father had, and loved beautiful things; even when she could hardly walk she would exclaim at the flowers, the sky and the sunshine.
I don't know how many times in the last few years that she hardly been able to walk, she would look out the window at the garden and say, "oh, aren't those flowers beautiful this morning?"
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Pictures
Connections
- In her ancestry
- 4 notable connections →
Every notable ancestor and famous relative that Ruth's own ancestors lead to, with the lines drawn down to her.