Lydia Messer
Personpeople/lydia-messer-fl1680.md
As written
- name
- Lydia Messer
- aka
- [Lydia Butler, Lydia Stanwood, Lidea Cuttler]
- sex
- female
- access
- public
- summary
- Probably the daughter of Thomas Messer of Sheepscot, Maine, in whose house on the Sheepscot River she lived until she married, before the Eastern war. Her family very probably fled with the other settlers when the Sheepscot was abandoned in August 1676, in King Philip's War, and were refugees in Boston, where she married John Stanwood of Gloucester in 1680, as Lydia Butler. Probably the mother of James Stanwood.
- residences
- place
- Sheepscot River, Maine
- basis
- documented
- confidence
- probable
- sources
- [book-bolton-1899-stanwood-family]
- note
- Her 1742 deposition: she "lived at the house of her father Thos Messer on ye West Side of s[ai]d Sheepscut River... till she was seventeen years old and married."
- events
- what
- Fled to Monhegan
- date
- Aug 1676
- place
- Monhegan, Maine
- sources
- [book-hubbard-1677-narrative, book-cushman-1882-ancient-sheepscot]
- note
- The Sheepscot settlers fled when the Kennebec fell, and sailed from Monhegan to Boston and Salem; the Messers very probably went with them.
- what
- Refugee in Boston
- date
- 1676
- place
- Boston, Massachusetts
- sources
- [book-cushman-1882-ancient-sheepscot, book-bolton-1899-stanwood-family]
- note
- Thomas Messer was among the Sheepscot refugees planning the resettlement at Boston in 1682; she married there in 1680.
- father
- name
- Thomas Messer of Sheepscot
- basis
- compiled
- confidence
- probable
- sources
- [book-bolton-1899-stanwood-family, book-cushman-1882-ancient-sheepscot]
- note
- Bolton's inference from her depositions of 1737 and 1742, which name "her father Thos Messer"; Cushman (p. 44) also has "Mrs. Stanwood" as "the daughter of Thomas Messer of Sheepscot, where she was born and brought up."
Lydia was probably a daughter of Thomas Messer of Sheepscot, Maine, the "Thomas Mercer" who took the oath there in 1665 (Cushman, p. 53), and was born between about 1657 and 1663, by the ages she gave in old age. She grew up "at the house of her father Thos Messer on ye West Side of s[ai]d Sheepscut River," but for a year at Damariscotta in the house of John Taylor, and lived there "till she was seventeen years old and married, which time was before the first Indian Wars" (Bolton pp. 32-34). Her first husband was a Butler. The widow of William Wilcott, who claimed land on the Sheepscot that Thomas Mercer had given her husband, "was the daughter of Thomas Mercer" (Cushman p. 97), and so probably Lydia's sister.
King Philip's War. The war came to the Sheepscot in August 1676. After the Kennebec trading house of Richard Hammond was taken on 13 Aug, a girl who escaped "ran across over the Land that Night ten or twelve Miles, to give them Notice that lived at Shipscot River ... Those of Shipscot taking this Warning escaped away as soon as they could, leaving their Cattel and their Dwellings as a Prey to the Indians" (Hubbard, 2:157-158). When Arrowsic fell the next day, the rest of the people of the Kennebec, Sheepscot and Damariscotta fled to the islands, and from Monhegan sailed "some to that town [Boston], others to Salem" (2:164-165; Cushman pp. 60-62). The Messers very probably went with them, and were refugees in Boston from that autumn: "Thomas Messer" was one of the former inhabitants who met "at the house of Mr. Robert Gibbes, at Fort Hill, in Boston" on 30 Aug 1682 to plan the resettlement of New Dartmouth, Sheepscot (Cushman p. 66). In Boston, on 9 Dec 1680, she married John Stanwood of Gloucester, as Lydia Butler, a widow. In old age she remembered the Eastern war as beginning "ye year after King Philip's Indian Wars."
Open questions
- Her Butler husband, and when she married him.
- Her depositions (Suffolk court files, 1737 and 1742; the Wiscasset town hall, 1742) and the Maine land claims of the 1730s for Messer (Mercer) and Wilcott, to read at first hand.
---name: Lydia Messeraka: [Lydia Butler, Lydia Stanwood, Lidea Cuttler]sex: femaleaccess: publicsummary: >-Probably the daughter of Thomas Messer of Sheepscot, Maine, in whose house on the Sheepscot Rivershe lived until she married, before the Eastern war. Her family very probably fled with the othersettlers when the Sheepscot was abandoned in August 1676, in King Philip's War, and were refugees inBoston, where she married John Stanwood of Gloucester in 1680, as Lydia Butler. Probably the motherof James Stanwood.residences:- place: Sheepscot River, Mainebasis: documentedconfidence: probablesources: [book-bolton-1899-stanwood-family]note: "Her 1742 deposition: she \"lived at the house of her father Thos Messer on ye West Side of s[ai]d Sheepscut River... till she was seventeen years old and married.\""events:- what: Fled to Monhegandate: "Aug 1676"place: Monhegan, Mainesources: [book-hubbard-1677-narrative, book-cushman-1882-ancient-sheepscot]note: "The Sheepscot settlers fled when the Kennebec fell, and sailed from Monhegan to Boston and Salem; the Messers very probably went with them."- what: Refugee in Bostondate: "1676"place: Boston, Massachusettssources: [book-cushman-1882-ancient-sheepscot, book-bolton-1899-stanwood-family]note: "Thomas Messer was among the Sheepscot refugees planning the resettlement at Boston in 1682; she married there in 1680."father:name: Thomas Messer of Sheepscotbasis: compiledconfidence: probablesources: [book-bolton-1899-stanwood-family, book-cushman-1882-ancient-sheepscot]note: 'Bolton''s inference from her depositions of 1737 and 1742, which name "her father Thos Messer"; Cushman (p. 44) also has "Mrs. Stanwood" as "the daughter of Thomas Messer of Sheepscot, where she was born and brought up."'---Lydia was probably a daughter of Thomas Messer of Sheepscot, Maine, the "Thomas Mercer" who took theoath there in 1665 ([Cushman](/files/sources/book-cushman-1882-ancient-sheepscot/), p. 53), and was bornbetween about 1657 and 1663, by the ages she gave in old age. She grew up "at the house of herfather Thos Messer on ye West Side of s[ai]d Sheepscut River," but for a year at Damariscotta in thehouse of John Taylor, and lived there "till she was seventeen years old and married, which time wasbefore the first Indian Wars" (Bolton pp. 32-34). Her first husband was a Butler. The widow ofWilliam Wilcott, who claimed land on the Sheepscot that Thomas Mercer had given her husband, "wasthe daughter of Thomas Mercer" (Cushman p. 97), and so probably Lydia's sister.**King Philip's War.** The war came to the Sheepscot in August 1676. After the Kennebec tradinghouse of Richard Hammond was taken on 13 Aug, a girl who escaped "ran across over the Land thatNight ten or twelve Miles, to give them Notice that lived at Shipscot River ... Those of Shipscottaking this Warning escaped away as soon as they could, leaving their Cattel and their Dwellings asa Prey to the Indians" ([Hubbard](/files/sources/book-hubbard-1677-narrative/), 2:157-158). When Arrowsicfell the next day, the rest of the people of the Kennebec, Sheepscot and Damariscotta fled to theislands, and from Monhegan sailed "some to that town [Boston], others to Salem" (2:164-165; Cushmanpp. 60-62). The Messers very probably went with them, and were refugees in Boston from that autumn:"Thomas Messer" was one of the former inhabitants who met "at the house of Mr. Robert Gibbes, atFort Hill, in Boston" on 30 Aug 1682 to plan the resettlement of New Dartmouth, Sheepscot (Cushmanp. 66). In Boston, on 9 Dec 1680, she married John Stanwood of Gloucester, as Lydia Butler, a widow.In old age she remembered the Eastern war as beginning "ye year after King Philip's Indian Wars."## Open questions- Her Butler husband, and when she married him.- Her depositions (Suffolk court files, 1737 and 1742; the Wiscasset town hall, 1742) and the Maineland claims of the 1730s for Messer (Mercer) and Wilcott, to read at first hand.