Mary Jane Ellingwood
Personpeople/mary-ellingwood-1926.md
As written
- name
- Mary Jane Ellingwood
- aka
- [Mary Smith, Mary Jane Smith]
- sex
- female
- access
- public
- summary
- The third daughter of Cudge Ellingwood and Ruth Short, born at Madison, Wisconsin, in 1926 and named for her two grandmothers. She studied interior decorating and home economics at Washington State, married Phil Smith in 1949, and lived at Salt Lake City and then Denver, where she raised her children Christie, Greg, Carolyn and Doug. It was she who urged her father to finish his memoir. She died in 2007.
- born
- date
- 29 Sep 1926
- place
- Madison, Wisconsin
- basis
- documented
- confidence
- probable
- sources
- [memoir-cudge-ellingwood-1970]
- died
- date
- 7 Oct 2007
- basis
- compiled
- confidence
- probable
- sources
- [online-tree-familysearch, newspaper-spokesman-review-2019-04-28-ellingwood]
- note
- She had died before her brother Dick (obituary, April 2019).
- residences
- date
- 1930
- place
- Madison, Dane County, Wisconsin
- basis
- documented
- confidence
- probable
- sources
- [census-1930-madison-ellingwood]
- note
- In her parents' household. Attached in the Ancestry tree; not checked here.
- date
- Nov 1937
- place
- Spokane, Washington
- basis
- documented
- confidence
- proven
- sources
- [memoir-cudge-ellingwood-1970]
- note
- With her parents.
- date
- 1949
- place
- Salt Lake City, Utah
- basis
- documented
- confidence
- probable
- sources
- [memoir-cudge-ellingwood-1970]
- note
- With her husband Phil Smith, in a little rented house on the edge of town, then a very nice home they later sold.
- place
- Denver, Colorado
- basis
- documented
- confidence
- probable
- sources
- [memoir-cudge-ellingwood-1970]
- note
- With her husband Phil Smith, after he left Westinghouse.
- date
- 1985
- place
- Denver, Colorado
- basis
- documented
- confidence
- probable
- sources
- [newspaper-spokane-chronicle-1985-03-06-ellingwood]
- note
- "Mary Smith of Denver, Colo." in her father's obituary.
- father
- id
- richard-ellingwood-1895
- basis
- documented
- confidence
- proven
- sources
- [memoir-cudge-ellingwood-1970, newspaper-spokane-chronicle-1985-03-06-ellingwood]
- mother
- id
- ruth-short-d1974
- basis
- documented
- confidence
- proven
- sources
- [memoir-cudge-ellingwood-1970]
- spouses
- id
- philip-smith-1925
- married
- date
- 15 Jul 1949
- place
- Spokane, Washington
- basis
- documented
- confidence
- probable
- sources
- [memoir-cudge-ellingwood-1970]
- note
- "They were married, also here in Spokane, on July 15, 1949" (her father's memoir, scan 162).
- basis
- documented
- confidence
- proven
- sources
- [memoir-cudge-ellingwood-1970, newspaper-spokane-chronicle-1985-03-06-ellingwood, newspaper-denver-post-2018-07-10-smith]
- note
- "His wife of 58 years, Mary Ellingwood Smith," in Phil's obituary (2018).
The third daughter, born at Madison on 29 September 1926, "named after her two grandmothers," Mary Pattullo and Jennie Elliott. As a baby she hated being left alone at bedtime but was otherwise happy and alert, "with a beautiful smile she never lost"; as a little girl she screamed and cried whenever the family car got stuck in the mud, a standing family joke (Cudge's memoir, scans 106, 109-110).
In high school in Spokane she went with Laird McEntee[?], "one of the finest boys we knew." He was killed in the war, and her parents kept the news through her sister Ruth's swimming meet at Pullman before her father drove her out to a hill at the edge of town and told her: "I think it was the hardest thing I ever did in my life" (scan 161). After a year's work as a typist she followed Ruth to Washington State, joined the Alpha Gamma Deltas, swam on the team and studied interior decorating and home economics. There she met Phil Smith; they married at Spokane on 15 July 1949 (scan 162).
They lived first at Salt Lake City, where Phil was with Westinghouse, and then at Denver, where he went into business as a manufacturer's representative (scans 162, 176). Her aunt Bea Short lived in an apartment at Salt Lake while they were there. In the summer of 1970, home in Spokane with Greg, Carolyn and Doug, she reminded her father "that there are many gaps in the stories our children can recall, and urged me to get them down," and he took up his memoir again (scan 4). Her husband's obituary (2018) calls her "his wife of 58 years, Mary Ellingwood Smith," and names their children Christie, Greg, Carolyn and Doug, with five grandchildren and eight great-grandchildren (obituary).
She died on 7 October 2007, as the FamilySearch tree has it, before her husband and her brother Dick.
Open questions
- Where she died, and her obituary (Denver area, October 2007), which would name her children and grandchildren.
- Her birth certificate (Madison, 1926) and her marriage record (Spokane, 1949): the records that carry the line from Ruth Short to her children.
---name: Mary Jane Ellingwoodaka: [Mary Smith, Mary Jane Smith]sex: femaleaccess: publicsummary: >-The third daughter of Cudge Ellingwood and Ruth Short, born at Madison, Wisconsin, in 1926 andnamed for her two grandmothers. She studied interior decorating and home economics at WashingtonState, married Phil Smith in 1949, and lived at Salt Lake City and then Denver, where she raisedher children Christie, Greg, Carolyn and Doug. It was she who urged her father to finish hismemoir. She died in 2007.born:date: 29 Sep 1926place: Madison, Wisconsinbasis: documentedconfidence: probablesources: [memoir-cudge-ellingwood-1970]died:date: 7 Oct 2007basis: compiledconfidence: probablesources: [online-tree-familysearch, newspaper-spokesman-review-2019-04-28-ellingwood]note: She had died before her brother Dick (obituary, April 2019).residences:- date: "1930"place: Madison, Dane County, Wisconsinbasis: documentedconfidence: probablesources: [census-1930-madison-ellingwood]note: In her parents' household. Attached in the Ancestry tree; not checked here.- date: "Nov 1937"place: Spokane, Washingtonbasis: documentedconfidence: provensources: [memoir-cudge-ellingwood-1970]note: With her parents.- date: "1949"place: Salt Lake City, Utahbasis: documentedconfidence: probablesources: [memoir-cudge-ellingwood-1970]note: With her husband Phil Smith, in a little rented house on the edge of town, then a very nice home they later sold.- place: Denver, Coloradobasis: documentedconfidence: probablesources: [memoir-cudge-ellingwood-1970]note: With her husband Phil Smith, after he left Westinghouse.- date: "1985"place: Denver, Coloradobasis: documentedconfidence: probablesources: [newspaper-spokane-chronicle-1985-03-06-ellingwood]note: '"Mary Smith of Denver, Colo." in her father''s obituary.'father:id: richard-ellingwood-1895basis: documentedconfidence: provensources: [memoir-cudge-ellingwood-1970, newspaper-spokane-chronicle-1985-03-06-ellingwood]mother:id: ruth-short-d1974basis: documentedconfidence: provensources: [memoir-cudge-ellingwood-1970]spouses:- id: philip-smith-1925married:date: 15 Jul 1949place: Spokane, Washingtonbasis: documentedconfidence: probablesources: [memoir-cudge-ellingwood-1970]note: '"They were married, also here in Spokane, on July 15, 1949" (her father''s memoir, scan 162).'basis: documentedconfidence: provensources: [memoir-cudge-ellingwood-1970, newspaper-spokane-chronicle-1985-03-06-ellingwood, newspaper-denver-post-2018-07-10-smith]note: '"His wife of 58 years, Mary Ellingwood Smith," in Phil''s obituary (2018).'---The third daughter, born at Madison on 29 September 1926, "named after her two grandmothers," MaryPattullo and Jennie Elliott. As a baby she hated being left alone at bedtime but was otherwise happyand alert, "with a beautiful smile she never lost"; as a little girl she screamed and cried wheneverthe family car got stuck in the mud, a standing family joke (Cudge's memoir, scans 106, 109-110).In high school in Spokane she went with Laird McEntee[?], "one of the finest boys we knew." He waskilled in the war, and her parents kept the news through her sister Ruth's swimming meet at Pullmanbefore her father drove her out to a hill at the edge of town and told her: "I think it was thehardest thing I ever did in my life" (scan 161). After a year's work as a typist she followed Ruthto Washington State, joined the Alpha Gamma Deltas, swam on the team and studied interior decoratingand home economics. There she met Phil Smith; they married at Spokane on 15 July 1949 (scan 162).They lived first at Salt Lake City, where Phil was with Westinghouse, and then at Denver, where hewent into business as a manufacturer's representative (scans 162, 176). Her aunt Bea Short lived inan apartment at Salt Lake while they were there. In the summer of 1970, home in Spokane with Greg,Carolyn and Doug, she reminded her father "that there are many gaps in the stories our children canrecall, and urged me to get them down," and he took up his memoir again (scan 4). Her husband's obituary(2018) calls her "his wife of 58 years, Mary Ellingwood Smith," and names their children Christie,Greg, Carolyn and Doug, with five grandchildren and eight great-grandchildren([obituary](/files/sources/newspaper-denver-post-2018-07-10-smith/)).She died on 7 October 2007, as the FamilySearch tree has it, before her husband and her brother Dick.## Open questions- Where she died, and her obituary (Denver area, October 2007), which would name her children andgrandchildren.- Her birth certificate (Madison, 1926) and her marriage record (Spokane, 1949): the records thatcarry the line from Ruth Short to her children.